If I confused anyone, I do talk to her directly. My son is never the messenger, parents who do that have some issues to deal with. I just let him know where I stand on things so that he doesn't get the wrong info about what has happened.

Again, thanks for the talks, I needed to let that out. For you ihateit, couldn't imagine the loss you felt. I hope one day they try to find you.

stay golden and keep smiling.