(((((((((((((mixedup_emotions)))))))))))))

I'm sorry you're going through something so hard

I think going to see a T, just for yourself, is a great idea. We can't change the people around us, be we can change OURSELVES, and our reactions, and how the people around us affect us. Go to your appointment, and don't worry about attachment, transference, what you should talk about, etc. Just see what T has to offer,and if he seems like someone you can work with, and then decide.