oy - i'm sorry your husband did it again i'm not quite sure why he is so intimidated by your struggles, it might be he has some of his own struggles too. (not trying to take sides here, just wondering in many cases a not-so-good upbringing can create a.. well, an emotionally impaired person) i hope he will wake up and realize what you need is compassion and emotional support - not discipline and regulations.

sending you lots of hugs - you deserve them! (actually - hugs don't need to be "deserved" really. the fact that you're a human being is enough.)

twilight