we agree with everyone above. safety is utmost and your T needs to understand how important that is to you and your system.
our T didn't realize how "unsafe" my littles were until a very young one came out and got lost. It happened a couple of times.

WE put a safety plan into place. Got in touch with the little ones that were out. Identified the triggers that caused them to front and react....also a list of phone numbers someone could call and a cell phone.

we are not losing time now and we are more aware of each other.

i really know how scary it can be.
wi