It doesnt seem like so difficult a thing to me. Some people rub me the wrong way as well. Do i walk on eggshells with em? Nope, i just dont reply to their posts unless i can restrain myself. If i dont feel like restraining myself i just dont post in their thread. There are lots of people here i do get along well with so its never a problem. If only real life was like that id probably be slightly more sane.