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Old Mar 01, 2009, 01:34 PM
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I am so digusted by my husband. We've been together for about 15 years. I was 18 and he was 29....It seems as though I've done a lot of maturing, and he's done a lot of regressing.

He makes gross sexual advances towards me all the time, and I HATE IT. I tell him TIME and TIME and TIME again to STOP talking to me like that. It disgusts me!!! And yet he continues to do it over and over and over again.

WHY?????? What do I have to do to get him to stop????

In the beginning of our relationship, we had a wonderful sexual relationship. But then, after our daughter was born, I started to feel less interested. Our sex life turned into a constant pleasing of him, just to get it over with and keep him satisfied, without much of it being for me. (Don't get me wrong, there are times when I am interested, but just not every day like him).....

Now that he is on meds for OCD, he has "issues"....so he has brought pornography into the house. Well, for a while, I was accepting of it - whatever helps get to the finish line, right? More and more, I'd notice that he was more interested in the porn than being with me.

We talked about it, and he understands.....I also talked to him about the gross way that he makes sexual advances towards me and how I am totally turned off by them. YET, he still DOESN'T STOP!!!

How on earth am I going to ever feel any kind of attraction to him when he acts like that and makes me feel disgusted???
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