If you don't mind me being personal. This is one of those odd things that my wife and I did before we got married and I don't think anyone really does this, but it helped us. We actually talked about our past sexual relationships. We didn't get into details and stuff, but talked about the people. Now that's what we did.

My question would be, have you talked to your husband about how you are feeling? And as ihateit mentioned, does he give you a reason to be jealous? Do you look for reasons to be?

One question that I feel is very important is do you and your husband talk about sex? That is, how you are feeling before, after, when your are apart, do you flirt with each other, develop the intimate side of your marriage? My wife was like that. She was very apprehensive with talking about little things, because "Christians don't do that" or married couples for that matter. And it affected our intimacy out of the bedroom more than anything. But I believe that the discussion of sex is an important part of marriage. Our spouse is suppose to be the one we feel safe with, and that is our most vulnerable time.

You don't have to answer any of these questions. Just food to chew on. I do not know the relationship, but you do. Find out why you are jealous or uncomfortable. It may be because you were not intimate before him and are getting to know yourself.

stay golden and encouraged.