have you been to see a counciller or psychologist? you say you are part of a group is that a therapy group? it would be really good if a professional was helping you wiht this - as to your friend - everyone is entitled to their opinion - but you are better when you are better - it takes as long as it takes to get better - hang in there
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts 
its how many times you get back up! 
(Thanks to fenrir for my Picture 
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet