Unconditional love.
Unconditional love.
Un-freaking-conditional love.

If you have this, then all those other things resolve themself. At the end of the day, when you close your eyes at night, if you know that your mother is "there" for you, thats all that matters. That is something that can make or break a relationship... make or break how you feel about yourself, and make or break how you see the world - in all its gust and glory. With a loving mom, the world is a beautiful place.

I wish all mothers knew this... and that all daughters had this.