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Originally Posted by bebop
I hope you realize though that not all women are like that. some are very devoted to the men they are with. same as men. there is good and bad in both sexes.
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That's what I have been trying to tell him our whole relationship, and his response is always the same thing: "All women are the same...you are most likely going to be like Lauren."
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Originally Posted by Rekon
I don’t know what to do about it and I feel as though I'm letting her down.
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You are not letting me down..but you have to realize that I do have needs, too..
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Originally Posted by Rekon
I have changed once I met my current girlfriend I started to care again and then a few things went wrong like due to my miss trust I think I pushed her away but I also disliked her because I was paying for everything while we lived together. I have learned that she did start talking to another man for about 3 months while we were together but that was because I started to neglect her because of my emotions towards feeling as though she was using me.
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You did push me away because from the beginning you kept saying that all women were the same and that if you were to go back overseas, you would break up with me and pretty much leave me hanging...I've tried to tell you over and over I'm not like that.
As for talking to another man, he was a friend. I didn't realize what he was after until a month ago. And I'm sorry for that. But I've never done anything with him nor have I ever planned to do anything. Also, I have felt terrible ever since my job stopped giving me hours. I hate not being able to contribute. And you know this. But you made me feel so depressed and terrible that you did start to lose me..