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Mar 02, 2009, 04:35 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2009
Posts: 14
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Originally Posted by Sher8907
that's what I tried to tell him in the beginning of our relationship and throughout it...I tend to have more guy friends than girl friends, because I grew up such a tomboy (being the only girl in the family out of a lot of guys) And I try to tell him, that even if someone wants to sleep with me, I'm not ever going to do that...that's not me. I think that it is wrong to cheat. And he had been cheated on while overseas, and I know how much that hurt him, and I swore to him and myself that I would never hurt him like his ex had..
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Here's the thing with the talking to other guys though every time she has I have already for seen them asking her to hang out or wanting to do more then be friends on 5 accounts I have actually told her, "hey, he's not talking to you to be your friend" and each time I was right. but yes I do understand a girl and guy can be friends with the opposite sex but like I have told her a lot of the guys that she used to be friends with she may have also talked to as more then friends at one point. I know that for most men once a person has talked to you like that you never forget it and will typically try to push for something more. but that may also be because that's what my friends always did but like I have said on 5 accounts where she thought these guys where her friends they ended up asking her to hang out alone with them. Which to me means they plan on trying to do something more. She claims a lot of the time that she's to nice to tell them to leave her alone after they hit on her and often times continues to talk to them. Much like with Matt all she had to do was tell me and I would have casually talked to him on the phone and told him "she has a boyfriend it's time for you to move on to someone else". But instead she said she was scared to bring it up with me and ended up hiding the whole thing even had his name as a woman's nick name on her MSN and AIM. I'm sorry but if you don't want talk to someone because you know all they want is sex then why continue and pretend they don't want it? I mean to continue on makes them know they will or might have a chance. It don't reassure me the boyfriend that nothing would ever happen  .
I can go a few years without a relationship to be honest, most of my relationships lasted 2 weeks to 3 months until sher and the reason was mostly because of me deploying and never being in the states and when I was I was always training. So i never really kept a Girlfriend long mostly stayed single and played the field. But thats what most servicemen do to avoid going through a break up every month due to never seeing their lady back home.
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