[quote=mlyn;961612]normal who can explain normal. that is what screws us up big time (for us). switching happens when ever something or someone is threatening our stability. Have been learning that switching is just ok, just is, and will happen. most ppl don't know it when it happens any way and even if they do they don't know how to explain it so they brush it off or ask , and we just say oh srry just having bad day and that seems to work.