Shaymus,

I can remember when I was a teenager and I would always say the most hurtful things I could because I knew it hurt. I also never gave it a second thought because I was a selfish, self centered teen ager who didnt care about anyone but myself. I can say this now because I know my behavior was unacceptable and wrong. Point is, I dont think that she understands how hurtful those comments have been to you. You would think she would but she probably doesnt. My suggestion is to pull her aside and have a little sitdown and explain your feelings and that her comments are very hurtful and ask her to please stop. I know that ppl might think this is bad advice but in my experience, teenagers just want to be treated and talked to like adults. If you approach her that way she may be more receptive to your request and cease with the awful comments.

I am sorry your going through this. I can imagine how hurt these comments make you feel. (((((((((((((((SHAYMUS)))))))))))

Take care.