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Originally Posted by ECHOES
I might have felt like T was 'taking sides' when refering to the movie..
I love how T's comments can be so gentle, sometimes tension-releiving.
I wonder if you wish your birth mother had the same notion of strength that you do, that would have possibly given her the courage to stay and walk through her troubles.
Some people live their whole lives unable to do that or even consider it. We are the fortunate ones who find it in ourselves somehow to attempt that and live in a time where we have support and T so we don't have to be totally alone in the process. This gives us many more options than others had at other times.
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On one hand yes I wish my birth mother had yes.
I did ask T the age old question, why did both my mothers do what they did and make no effort to change things??? T said, "I think you underestimate your ablity to think things through and have empaphy for your children...I said, you mean there are people that just can't think things through??? T said I think you have a very strong natural resisilence, perhaps something neither of your mothers had...then the next question is going to be, but why? oh well, mine is not to wonder why, mine is to just do or die...glad its me though....