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Mar 03, 2009, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by ThePainNeverDies
I just wish I'd taken that opportunity, those last opportunities to just say that one word.. "Goodbye".
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Tell them now. Write a letter to each and every one of the people you didn't get a chance to say goodbye to and let them know how crappy you feel about not seeing them one last time.
Write their names on balloons and one by one say goodbye or whatever you need to say as you let them float away. Send them up to those people and talk to them. "Dad, this is for you." kinda thing.
I know it's not easy. I have had my share of deaths too. It gonna take time and a lot of tears. Tears, for some reason, we don't seem willing to shed. One of my brothers died 12 years ago and I am just now able to smile when I think of him and his antics. Before, even the good memories were too sad and made me cry.
Keep posting. It will help a little. 
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