Hi Tishie,
thanks for the reply. He is even dead set against having one at our house because he's paranoid about- what if the kid would make up a lie. I do know some of the parent of my childrens freinds well but, he still opposes it. He always uses the case which was on the news 6 months ago of the father who used to serve juice laced with drugs and then he would assault the girls. He's not going to budge on this and I'm not going to worry about it anymore.