I did set boundries with my family regarding my family when it came to my therapy, however they know if they all push me they can overstep them and push me back.......they all know how easily they can make me crumble.....since I was little.
My H realizes I do go for help due to a ex H who was very abusive. He doesn't know the extent of the abuse however and my T has advised me against me sharing it with him at this point. My H is an alcoholic and he also has ptsd and I honestly don't think he could handle it. I was also SA when I was little and have never told anyone.......it would tear my family up.