{{{{{{{{{{{{{Pomegranate}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You and I are in the same boat, pretty much. Only difference is that I don't miss my daughter most of the time. My only hope is that someday my two grandsons by her will want to at least find out who I really am.

My daughter got mad at me for some unknown reason and did the same thing as yours. She stopped talking to me and, although she was encouraged by her brothers to tell me what was bothering her, she refused. She also refused to let her boys see me.

It's been 12 years now and I have absolutely no hope of ever even talking to my daughter. That's okay, though. She's Borderline due to the abuse her dad inflicted on her when she was little. I guess I divorced him a little too late.

I know some of what's going on through my husband and through my boys, but again, all I really care about are my grandsons. I don't understand my attitude towards her, but I accept it. It makes life a whole lot easier. Maybe someday you won't hurt as much as you do now.

Maybe there's something about Pices children? My daughter's birthday is the 20th.

Please take gentle care.