oh pom, i hurt for you.what a difficult thing to accept. i am so sorry u have this heartbreak. there were times my son when he was a young adult would "cut me off" and i know the pain u suffer. i was blessed tho cause he'd always return. i'm sorry that this has not happened for you. please know that we do care about your loss and wish i could do more. i do care and you do matter. sending caring hugs to you...