That belief would be transference also. My family of origen never approved of anything I did, and would pick it all to pieces with criticising anything they could find, or telling me to not even try because I wouldn't be able to be good enough anyway. Now I am so sensitized to rejection that it is all that I can see much of the time, especially from anyone in an authority figure role.
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“We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impression to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of.”
– John H. Groberg
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