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Originally Posted by pachyderm
Now I am able to see how "bent" my mother must have been to behave the way she did. But it's taken a long time for me to come to this point -- a long time and a lot of absorbing of care for me. I would not have done it if I had not gotten that.
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What do you mean, pachy?? That after you had been cared for enough you were able to see more clearly where your mother was coming from??
This conversation kind of terrifies me, honestly....
But I am curious to know how people get to that point of seeing their abusers pain, confusion, whatever. I don't know if I even WANT to get to that point...but then again, I haven't really even started working on childhood stuff yet, so who knows where it will lead me....
