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Old Mar 03, 2009, 02:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Rapunzel View Post
My family of origen never approved of anything I did, and would pick it all to pieces with criticising anything they could find, or telling me to not even try because I wouldn't be able to be good enough anyway. Now I am so sensitized to rejection that it is all that I can see much of the time, especially from anyone in an authority figure role.
Working through this while it is happening with a therapist is a really good way to address this.
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