T is very family oriented
I am very family avoidant

T is sensitive so am I

T is very capable and serene and levelheaded (as far as I have experienced her)
I am volatile but I can give good advice to OTHER people at times

T and I are rather similar in age
and last week we agreed that we're both going to be feisty old gals when the time comes. "do not go gentle", and all that....