Okay so im new here but definately need some advice. I was dating somebody for close to a year and a half. We lived together for a while but he ended up breaking up with me in June 08. We didn't talk for awhile after that because i was absolutely heartbroken. I met someone else and we began casually seeing more of each other. I made clear to this person i did not want a serious relationship and after a while began realizing that i really did love my ex and wanted things to work. I guess you can say i was talking to my ex and this guy i had met at the same time because i was very unsure of what i wanted to do. Once i realized my ex was who i wanted and he wanted me back, i let the other one go. He did not really like my decision and then decided to get my ex's phone number and portray me as this "player type" He exaggerated stories of the time we had spent together all on my ex's voicemail. About 2 weeks before my ex received the voicemail I had told him i met someone else while we were broken up and that it was nothing serious and i loved and wanted to be with him. We agreed we would move on but he did not want to know any of the details. Then he received the voicemail last week and will not speak to me because he believes i was physically with both of them at the same time, and he is very hurt and upset by all of the details he did not originally want to know. I do not know what to do at this point. Ive apologized endlessly and he knows he is the only person i want and love. I dont know if i should just give him some time, or should i keep making attempts to call him? It's already been a week, and I am absolutely just wrecked about this and desperate for help!