being a kid. i know fo sho, that when i was still being bullied and had no friends, the fact that i never had anyone to sleep over or anything killed me. i knew i was missing out.
i think in some cases the worry is appropriate, but surely if you meet the other childs parents, and anyone else whos around during the sleepover beforehand you can judge them accordingly?

and surely if they are amongst friends there is little any possible abuser can do?

now, im relatively convinced that you are a good parent, seeing your concern, good enough to teach or have taught your child ho to look after themself.

i think it would be a big shame for them to never have that opportunity, as it is something important in a childs life.