SittingAtWatersEdge and HangingOn: Just try to trust yourselves and trust the process. If the memories are coming up and you are writing them down, and even entertaining the thought of telling T, then that means unconsciously you are getting very close and wanting to tell T. I think that you will tell T your secrets when you feel ready. You will know when you are ready. If you are afraid that T will leave you or reject you if you tell, then share this with her. This is a big part of the therapy in itself-- working out the fear that our therapists aren't like others we have dealt with in our pasts-- we can reveal even our darkest parts and still have them stick around.