Mad - Aye, she's in the military...and I don't think they're keeping up with "the real world" as far as PTSD, and some other things as well, as I have to see a military T as well, I was lucky and got a civilian T hired by the military. We have talked about getting a "real" T, someone who has dealt with PTSD and can do EMDR, everything I have read about it says it's the best treatment (alongside conventional treatment of course) for PTSD. I know we will have to pay out-of-pocket, but for her to get better, I think we're going to have to do it. I just want the best for her, and this guy just isn't it, and she agrees.

TIFF - Thanks! I am glad there are peeps out there who know what's up and help, I knew this guy wasn't up-to-speed, but for me to make sure the wife knows I have been doing all my "studying" on-line, about CBT and EMDR. You just affirmed and answered my EMDR question. I read it's the best for PTSD. I have found a counselor, whom I'll be calling today for her.

Thanks guys! Been a huge help! God bless!