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Old Mar 04, 2009, 02:49 AM
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your boyfriend is not supporting you, he should be please realize that he is NOT being realistic or helpful. I don't know what you need to do about him, but please, he is hurting YOU not the other way around.

Honestly, without his sperm this could never have happened so if he's guild tripping you, that's NOT right in ANY way shape or form. Please realize, that in reality THIS IS AS MUCH HIS RESPONSIBILITY as yours, his JOB is to let you make the decision AND SUPPORT YOU, obviously he is just getting mad at you whatever you do - when you were not wanting to and si'ed he got mad. He got mad at anything you did to try to deal with being pregnant. When you got the abortion, he gets mad because you "killed it" - well. you needed to do it. You know that. He should too.

I'm sorry he's not being supportive. Please try to be safe, if you really really can't cope, consider going into some type of care facility just so you have some kind of distance from reality for a bit to deal with your emotions, call a crisis line, hold onto your friend.

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