(((MUE))) after reading your most recent post re T saying your marriage wouldn't survive(?) i have to put my 2 cents worth in. i was tempted before...but now i believe my thoughts my be worthwhile sharing. i too wondered how the T could make such a statement. it felt odd to me especially on a first/second appt. if anything my experience is t's don't make a judgement call like that. i felt it was too quick for any type of statement about your marriage. he doesn't even know your hubby, has not spolen with your hubby...so wrapping it up in a "tidy bow" re get a divorce really gave me reason to pause when i had first read your initial post about your first meeting with the t.
i'm curious to see if others see it the same way. it really was a red flag to me. are you sure that is what the t said???? i know you were very upset when you saw the t...lots to discuss and painful... anyway sending you some hugs and hope you can get more definition on this from your t. the T may be correct but i just thought it was inappropriate in the timing if nothing else.