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Old Mar 04, 2009, 07:27 AM
sittingatwatersedge sittingatwatersedge is offline
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Originally Posted by madisgram View Post
wrapping it up in a "tidy bow" re get a divorce really gave me reason to pause when i had first read your initial post about your first meeting with the t.
i'm curious to see if others see it the same way. it really was a red flag to me. are you sure that is what the t said????
my $0.02 are with Madisgram. Marriage is not something to be given up lightly (not that your problems are light, I don't mean that), and most especially when there are children involved; divorce is almost the greatest evil known to man - I should know. There are many paths short of that, any one of them preferable.

the fact that yr H is in therapy is a real plus. I know someone who said "*** no" to that, and everything gets so much harder.

my prayers for you, dear MUE, I know this is bitterly hard. hang in there
you are not alone.