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Old Mar 04, 2009, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by cai23 View Post
when there is no space left for me all I can do is to shut the world out.

I don't feel as if there is anyone out there that really cares about who I am, or the pain I feel everyday. So my anger runs really deep, I get scared and lose control.
No wonder you feel like the world is closing in on you. Boundaries still come to my mind here, boundaries which will give you the space that you need.

I care about you Cai.......

So you get angry, then scared, and then you lose control. Do you do risky stuff to obtain some space do you think? If you could just slow down this progression of anger/scared/lose control?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........

I'm an ISFJ
Thanks for this!
cai23