TgrsPurr: those were very kind words that you wrote about me.......i'm here to send 'em right back at you....one of your best traits is your strength. here you've lost your job and you're handling it well while you're thinking ahead to what you need to do. you've been such a source of support for so many here......and a lot of us really do appreciate it. i'm here for you.......tell me what to do....love you, pat