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Mar 04, 2009, 01:33 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2009
Location: State of confussion, USA
Posts: 308
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Originally Posted by ginniesky
yesterday we seen therapist and she comforted us while we cried because favorite aunt died and we very sad and her comforting us brought alot of emotions we not know what to do with not safe to cry alone ....used to get punished for crying only safe with therapist yesterday first time we cried ....
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I understand hun. It is hard to cry when all our life we have been conditioned not cry. We were treated the same way growing up. We don't feel safe crying at all. Even with our T we still see crying as bad and weak. But that is what we have to learn. It is ok to cry. To shed a tear or two. There is no one here that will punish you for crying. Please know that here you are safe also.
Hugs if you want them.  You may cry on my shoulder if you need to or want to.
Denise of the Clan
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