hi misslaura  , he must have been a very speical man for u to love him so.
getting over death...i don't think of it that way. rather it's that we can celebrate their living and not focus on our loss as much. as the years go by there will be fond moments of your grandpa.. that' s what's happened to me anyway. i have lost both my parents. it made me mad at first cause i felt like go pick on another family , already, we already gave....but now i see it differenly...time...it's a wonderful healer of the spirit...and our loved ones who have gone, their spirit lives within us. they are never truly gone, jme.
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