eep! i'd be finding a new therapist.
i never used to swear with my pdoc, but these days i am a bit more relaxed about it and will let it slip out every now and again. he swears too (lololol!!) and we use terms which are a lot more disrespectful that damn.
but it's all a part of us relating and expressing how bad the situation can get, at times.
i would have a MAJOR problem if someone told me not to come back if i couldn't control my language. there is a huge difference between saying something like "i'd prefer it if you didn't swear so often" and "don't come back unless you clean up your act".
your T confuses me (for the same reasons slippers mentioned). would you be able to find someone new?
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