Wow. That sounds totally confusing.

I can't make much sense of the comments she made or even begin to figure out what she was trying to get at. What I do know is that is really doesn't sound like you two have a connection, and that both times you have seen her have hurt and confused you far more than they have helped.

If you want to see a pdoc, I'd honestly suggest you see someone else. You can take the power out of her 'dumping' you if you make a decision about preferring to not see her, too. She sure sounds a little too presumptuous for me.

Sorry she's given you such a hard time. My own t is confusing me too, and it isn't fun.