im unable to speak for others ((KM)))) i would like to call you friend for many reasons.. one is because of your effort towards bringing confusion into the light where we can examine it, find our misunderstandings and look at healthier ways of being in these confused times... you have an ability to bring the controversial forward, controversy doesnt frighten me, it challenges me, challenges give me an opportunity to find deeper meaning and understanding and to broaden my healing abilities..

you have an ability to remain human during the excruciating self examination process and to make me feel accepted even tho i might not be viewing some matter in the most open light i might be able to and in that way you guide me and lead me towards healthier friendships here, and in my daily life at home and in my own community...

you offer cheer and a smile when i need it.. i know i can count on you for unsweetened truth and a kind hand to help me deal with that truth..

i call you friend because we work and share together here and you play some great music and accept me as i am, even when i have a hard time accepting myself..

people who harbor ill feelings towards others might appear to want to have you destroyed because fragile egos feel threatened... it is the strong ego that can bear truth..

fragile egos cannot admit unhealthy behavior and therefore are reluctant to grow within themself and so do not want others to grow, maybe because they are afraid of being left behind... if only they knew that you are giving them opportunity..

it saddens me when someone with broad understanding is met with unhealthy resistance... the whole community suffers..

it is sad that unhealthy individuals cannot rise above thier own selfish misunderstandings for the good of the whole

its more sad when the resistance to health succeeds

its even sadder still when the community finally realizes the truth and decides to grow, but only long after those with vision have lived a life of pain and misunderstanding delivered by those that you attempted to help

sending you my cares always sweet, strong, kind, person...

none among us is perfect, but what i like about you is your patient compassion (and i do understand the impatience you might be feeling at times)

just dont give up, k? you have me as a friend for certain... (hope thats a good thing )