He just left me with this note:

"I'm going to turn to God to make this situation better. I will always give you the respect you want and also respect our daughter. You will see a change starting today. Please give me this time with the psychologist. You will love what you see. I love you."

UGH. First of all, turn to God? Not to disrespect anyone's religion, but he is nowhere near religious - and to me, this is a cop-out.

He will "always" respect us? How on earth can you turn a switch like that when he hasn't respected me for our entire relationship?

I will love what I see? How does he know? I don't think there's anything left to salvage.