SAFRON,
THANKS FOR WHAT YOU POSTED. I HAVE JUST BARELY BEGUN TO READ THINGS THAT SAY WE MULTIPLES ARE A VARIANT OF NORMAL, NOT "BROKEN" OR "DAMAGED GOODS" AS SOME HAVE SAID IN PAST. I LIKE THE HOPE IN WHAT YOU WROTE AND HOPE THAT I CAN FIND ALL THE GOOD THINGS ABOUT BEING MULTIPLE. MY BIGGEST STRUGGLE IN BEING MULTIPLE IS A SPOUSE WHO ACTIVELY REJECTS/RESISTS THE VERY THINGS THAT ARE MY LIFE. WITH HELP I AM GOING TO LEARN HOW TO BE ME AND BE WELL AND HIS BELIEFS CAN BE HIS BUT I AM GOING TO LEARN HOW TO NOT LET HIS DISBELIEF TRIP ME AND MY PIXIES UP AND CAUSE US TO FALL. WE'VE COME TOO FAR TO LET ANYONE ELSE'S BELIEFS SABOTAGE US. WE SURVIVED SOME THINGS WE WOULDN'T WANT TO PRINT HERE AND WE ARE GETTING BETTER ALL THE TIME. NOW IS THE TIME FOR US TO CONCENTRATE ON WHAT IS GOOD IN OUR LIFE AND LEARN HOW TO DEAL, HEAL AND MOVE PAST THE PAST - BUT NOT BECAUSE SOMEONE WHO WAS NOT THERE DEMANDS WE DO IT - BUT BECAUSE IT IS TIME AND WE ARE READY TO DO IT. FOR US AND WITH GOD'S HELP.
FEELING MILITANT AT THE MOMENT AND GOT PRETTY EMPHATIC, HOPE WE DID NOT RANT.
PIXIES OVERCOMING!