I am glad you have come to that point in your grieving......there is no definite time & there may be times in the future when you think about him & tears will come again....just not that constant feeling that is there at first.

I know my Mother died 4 year ago in January......but the trauma that came during the time she was dying hasn't gone away very well. I remember just this last Thanksgiving....I was invited to dinner with several new friends here in KY (moved from California). Sitting there at the table, flashed the vision of my Mother (it was the first time I had seen just how sick she really was & was trying to sort through what I was seeing.....I couldn't believe that vision haunted me 4 years later....I had to fight back the tears that no one around me would have even understood. But luckily, I have wonderful caring friends here & that friendship carried away the vision into a peaceful wonderful dinner.....trying to fill my mind with new visions is hard when horrible ones seem to stick.....but as time passes, visions usually fade or at least come back less & less often.

Glad you are doing well,
Debbie