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Originally Posted by Poohbear13
I emailed my Ts and they have assured me that I am in the right spot. They don't expect me to give up total control right away and that it takes time. They tell me that I am on the right track as far as the trusting goes. They have assured me that there is nothing I can do wrong and they won't stop seeing me if something happens. They are just letting me know that giving up control is not a bad thing and they also tell me they don't expect me to give up total control right away. They understand that they have to earn my trust.
This makes me feel a bit better. At least I know I am not expected to give up total control right away. I will remain in control as much as possible while building the trust.
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It is good that you emailed your Ts. I am glad that you feel a bit better about the whole control issue. I myself am a control freak and hate the idea of giving up contol to someone else even my own system. But I am trying to learn to trust. It is very hard to trust someone that you dont know very well even when that someone is inside you.
Thanks for the update.
Diana
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