Hi,

Thanks for your replies! I did a pros and cons list about sharing what I wrote, and I ended up deciding today that I would share all but one thing. When my T asked about it today and I gave it to him, he didn't look at it, just held it out between us, midair, exactly where I had handed it to him, and said if I didn't want him to have it or wasn't ready for it I didn't have to give it to him. I told him I was nervous about it so we talked about that, and after a bit of discussion I said I was ok with him having it. I am not looking forward to the inevitable regret pattern that comes after this kind of thing, but I can remind myself that whenever I have felt this way before with him it has been fine - it has always been just my own fear biting me.

Thanks, everyone, for helping me with this.

vienna