YOU SAID YOU HURT, AND WE ALL KNOW THAT IT IS AN UNHEALTHY EXPERIENCE AS A WHOLE PERSON. bUT THEN WE SHOULD MUST NEVER FORGET THAT IT IS ONLY AN "EMOTION" IT IS ONLY A FEELING. WE SHOULD MUST NEVER FORGET TOO, THAT WE ALL HAVE "MINDS" AND SOMETIMES WE FORGOT THAT OUR MIND IS MORE POWERFUL THAN OUR EMOTION. YES, IT IS A POWER, WE MUST CONSIDERED IT AS A POWER AND NOT JUST ONLY A "FUNCTIONAL ORDINARY ORGAN". IF YOU DECIDED THAT YOU WANT TO FORGIVE THAT PERSON THEN THAT IS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS THAT YOU HAVE DONE IN YOUR LIFE, THE BEST TIME TO FORGIVE IS TODAY AS LONG AS YOU ARE IN PROPER MIND, I MEAN YOU ARE UNDOUBTFUL. PERSONALLY I WANT TO FORGIVE WHEN I AM (DRUNK, SICK OR IN THE MID OF 3:00 AM) IT IS PROVEN TO ME, BECAUSE IT WILL LESSEN MY DOUBT OR SHYNESS. BUT THEN IF YOU FORGIVED THAT PERSON MAKE SURE THAT YOUR COMMUNICATION IS HEALTHY EVERYDAY, TO HEAL YOUR ANGER OR YOU MAY ALSO "IMAGINE" THAT HE OR SHE IS YOUR "THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE AGAIN LIKE WHAT YOU USED TO DO BEFORE (EVEN NOT)." "TIME IS THE BEST CURER OF EMOTIONS" I THINK MAYBE AFTER 8 MONTHS OR MORE, YOU AND HE WILL BECoME OKAY AGAIN (WELL!! IT DEPENDS ON YOU Jennifer)

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