Thanks Man! It is getting better, and I am trying everyday to control my thoughts and my words. Many years ago I learned how to discuss situations without yelling. She still has not developed that skill. Part of it is she is tired of dealing with the questions, part she is strong willed and opinionated.

I mentioned before she has this new girlfriend that is taking alot of her time. I am sure the friend is filling a void and creating a distraction during this difficult time for us. But I can't help but be bothered by her continued and constant association with this friend. She works with her, plays basketball with her, and they talk or text each other for hours everyday. I feel she spends more time with her friend than she does working on our relationship. But as I said, I am sure it's replacing the chaos we have been dealing with lately.

We see a my T together tomorrow and hopefully she will give us some tools and open our eyes to what is really needed to get back to a healthy marriage. It will be great to have a professional give us some good direction and should also help my wife understand me better.

I am getting better, but I still struggle when the situation presents an un-easy feeling.

Thanks for listening friends. And thanks for your help.