Good for you! You have done your homework, or heart and head work might be a better choice of words. I congratulate you in making the right choice and plan and really want to know "the rest of the story" as Paul Harvey said. Being at peace with it and not in pieces, torn in all directions....and living your life the best way you know how is great for you.

Keep us posted.

PS It is making me think and rethink about possible legal action that I've been keeping my head in the sand over...doing nothing gets that result........

Love

Pex