I hope you understand that being celibate doesn't mean you cannot enjoy any physical intimacy at all. Be honest with anyone you might become close to and tell them what your boundaries are. The more time that you spend with the person, the chances are that your boundaries will begin to expand.

The point is that you have the right to insist upon a comfort zone for any activity. It isn't ever a case of "all or nothing," except with some jerk who isn't worth your time anyway.