Hi Cramer welcome to PC.

I think it's great that you have sought therapy. I think that was very courageous. Sometimes during arguments with our spouses things are said that arnt meant to offend, but they do. I would try and talk to your wife about this. Tell her that your wanting to really work on your marriage and make it work and ask her if she feels the same. Tell her that for the sake of the children, you should try to make a go of this. I am a product of a divorced family and I will tell you that it's not just the parents who suffer, it is the children and it hurts. It seems that you are doing all you can and I think you have made some positive steps. Take care and please keep us posted.