first of all im a little concerned as to why youre discussing something serious like this over text messages? you cant get a person's tone, facial expressions etc... through a text and this seems a little too serious to risk losing meaning.

second, it doesnt sound like hes being disrespectful at all. it sounds like he really really wants to try and make things right and he doesn't know how to do that. It sounds like he just wants to spend time with you and try to be civil with you. Its probably very hard to just leave you be when all he wants is to be with you.