I would to comment on why can't i trust?? Recently i was diagnosed with non military related ptsd and mild depression.It got the point to where i was isolating myself from my girlfriend,friends and family.I explained to my girlfriend what was going on and why it seemed like i was isolatiing myself.I am a Volunteer Firefighter and was out on a call,and she got into my computer desk and found a piece of paper with all my passwords on it.She got into the website of my cell phone provider where you can view the minutes,text messages sent and recieved,and calls made and recieved.She started calling numbers wanting to know who these people were that i had called and had called me,all which were friends and other members of the Volunteer Fire Department i belong to,all Male.Then she found my My Space account user ID and password,got into it and closed the account out.She felt because of my 2 illnesses that i was not isolating myself but instead pushing her away,so therefore she became suspicious and did what i mentioned above.She wanted me to put aside any other activities i do in my life and give 100% to her.She got to the point where she was neglecting time with her children and grandchildren to be with me.Even though she deserved to have a life of her own,she began neglecting her children and grandchildren.We got into several arguments which led to me having anger outbursts,such as kicking and throwing things,and most recently punching a gole in the kitchen wall and spraining my right wrist,yet blamed it all on me when she provoked the anger.I am seeking counseling and seeing a psychiatrist now,and i told her she needed to do the same and she relied with"theres nothing wrong with me" Come to find out after her Psychiatrist visit she found out just the opposite.Has nyone else had to deal with anything similar?