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Originally Posted by mdavis5766
My ex-boyfriend was like that he would play Gears of War and Call of Duty online like one night he actually sat up the whole night and played the game and I woke up at 7 a.m. and saw this, then whenever I got home, he would be sitting on the computer reading the forums and then he would have the game on pause, and since I took courses online the use of the computer for my educational purposes usually would come up in an argument. Don't get me wrong he would go to work and class but as soon as he got home he was on that video game and I would be mad because I'm like "hello girlfriend here!" Then when we would finish having the first thing he did after getting himself together he would hop on the computer to read forums all night long.
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Yeah sounds a lot like my boyfriend. When he gets home from work ZIP he's right on the stupid computer. Reading stuff for his Wii his other baby! Then when he whips out his lap top if I even touch it slightly I get yelled at. I mean I'm a bigger girl so my hips are the size of Texas and a half, if I go and sit next to him I might accidentally nudge his USB mouse thingie and he'd say "Dont make me beat you!" But he jokes about everything, though is humor isn't tasteful I know he'd never touch me on purpose he's not like that but still it's pretty rude dont you think? He calls it his other girlfriend. Yeah... I've been teathering with the idea of hoppin on a plane back to CA but that family life is a whole nother ballpark for me. Ugh... Listen girl, it's better to nip it in the butt now than later! My boyfriend isn't on the games 24/7 because we talked about it. Don't hide your emotions when you talk to him, it obviously hurts you and if you tell him how you feel, he should realize how much it effects you, if he doesn't and gives you this "You're over reacting stfu" thing going on then he's not worth it, it's one thing for a needy girlfriend to have him being on her hip all the time (which we aren't!) and another thing for a girl who feels neglected and lost because the
one she loves is regecting her. Tell him that you don't want to take his passion away (because really do you want him to be unhappy for you to be happy?) but you do want your lover at your side again. If all else fails tell him to have a good rest of his life with his xBox then if you aren't financially stable move into one of your best friends house or move back to your mom and dad. You need to surround yourself around people who love and adore you. This is not your problem, there's nothing wrong with you, he just has his priorities out of wack and he's too stupid to see that he's losing a good thing. Sorry most of this was venting haha... but really it's time to think about yourself instead of him. Sometimes the best thing is to let go. And it's not a loss it's a gain of oppertunity to get something better... But like my other reply, if there is a light at the end of the tunnel dont let it slip away no matter how small it is.